Actually the title of this post should have been “The well
off scrounger”. Even though it is a good
Oxymoron I somehow felt that it would
give the plot away.
My perception of a scrounger has always been of someone who
is not so well off having to borrow stuff from other people. Stuff he has no
intention of returning. But the person I am writing about is completely
opposite of this description. He is young, a professional who has a good career
with great prospects and is definitely more than well off. In fact he can be
categorized as rich. Even though he is a man of means this guy never pays. For
instance if someone is hosting a group of friends for drinks or tea he would
order a pack of cigarettes saying that he would pay later and conveniently
forget about it. It is the same when it comes to going on outings with friends.
He will say he will pay his share on a lter day and conveniently forget about
it. Even when reminded after many months he will quite thickly say I will pay
later.
This gentleman belongs to a profession where there are lots
of fees which have to be paid to others and I was told whenever he pays his
dues he always keeps a small portion of the money back. For instance if he has
to pay 10,700/- he will pay the 10,000 but never the 700.
It is the same if he
sees a pack of cigarettes. He will help himself to it till it is over. Without
even thinking about the owner of the pack. The best thing is he does not smoke.
At least when he has to buy his own.
These are not one off random events which I am writing about
but something I have observed over a span of nearly ten years. What is
happening as a result of this is that people are slowly but surely moving him
out of their circles. Guess that is understandable. What is most interesting is
apparently that his mom is just like him at least when it comes to paying back
her fees.
It was only when I heard this tit bit of information I
realized that scrounging too is hereditary.
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