Divorcee = slut + easy

I knew and have read in the blogsphere that ladies who are divorced and separated get hit on a lot by men over here. But I did not know what an epidemic of gigantic proportion this problem was until a close friend as well as colleague started going through one. To all the males who she came into contact with she might as well be wearing a huge sign saying I am easy and looking for a fuck so come and get it. People at all levels were harassing her with one purpose which was to get into bed with her. The height of this was when some unknown party who was present at a court hearing called her and offered to share her pain. He had copied her number down when she was giving it to the court registrar for some legal matter. This made me dig deeper into this problem. And it seems that what my friend experienced was not an isolated case. In fact when I was talking about this scenario with another gentleman he told me how he knew of a modern day Romeo who only pursued ladies who were separated or divorced. His logic; she is no more a virgin and therefore if I bed her and leave her I am really not being irresponsible. I nearly puked when I heard this statement. Firstly because this attitude stinks. And also because this guy thought he was being quite noble and full of virtue by going down this path. I know some of the pressures which people in this group go through and what they need is an extra helping of TLC and certainly not some wolf in sheep’s clothing waiting to pounce on them.